ABA: Should It Really Be Demonised?

An Analysis Of The Benefits Of ABA

In my university days I worked on both ABA programmes and Options programmes. I was blissfully unaware that any kind of controversy surrounded either of them.

I’d spent my sixth form years volunteering at youth clubs for children with additional needs, and done an afternoon each week at my local special school. I’d loved both, but the intensity of these 1:1 programmes wowed me.

I felt like I had an opportunity to make a real difference.

And at 18 that was a heady feeling.

Looking back now with an adult head, as someone who has spent most of her teaching career working with students with autism in one manner or another, I am far more comfortable with what we did in the ABA programmes than I am with Options.

And yet it is ABA that is consistently criticised in the press.

Options even back then felt random at times. I loved (and still love) the fact that we were allowing the child to take the lead. That we were entering their world and engaging with them on their level. I love the opportunities it’s gave us for creative and imaginative play. I love the opportunities it gave us to show the children that their special interests mattered.

It’s something that has undeniably carried through into my teaching career. I have been known to spend all day pretending to be a purple cat. I’ve also played a form of Tig where I am an angry wolf (think Minecraft) on more than one occasion. I love that Options taught me that, and gave me the gift of understanding why entering a child’s world was so important.

I’m less comfortable about the fact that we spent our Options sessions locked in a small room.

A room in which the children spent their whole days. And I still have no idea why the children on the programme weren’t allowed to eat meat.

Knowing what I know now about the difficulties so many children with autism have about generalising what they have learnt, I cannot help but wonder how many of the children I worked with were able to apply the skills they developed in that room outside of it.

In contrast the ABA programmes I worked on were progressive.

They were forward thinking. We weren’t sat in a room, we were out and about. Visiting the park, the beach, the local museum. We went shopping and we went to nursery.

Generalising skills was at the forefront of our mind.

With the exception of encouraging children to respond to their name, working on eye contact and teaching them to sit at the table for ‘work’ time. I don’t remember teaching behaviours. I remember teaching skills.

The parents I worked for (three sets in total), were not trying to make their children less autistic.

They were trying to give them the skills to enable them to succeed in school.

With the exception of how intensively we worked and the rewards the children were given for completing tasks there was nothing we did that was dramatically different to what was being done in schools at the time.

In hindsight, would I have put the emphasis on eye contact that we did?

No, I wouldn’t. But there wasn’t the knowledge seventeen years ago that there is now. Education is infinitely indebted to the autistic adults who have come forward over the years to talk about their experiences, and to explain that unlike in the neurotypical world eye contact does not equate to attention.

But would I have taught the skills I did?

Absolutely, unquestionably, without a doubt. We taught matching skills, that enabled non verbal children to communicate with us using PECs. We taught basic reading and writing skills to prepare children for school. And we taught play skills, we did puzzles, we jumped on trampolines, we had play dates.

We broke down skills into tiny components and made them feel manageable.

And as someone who went on to be a teacher, this has been one of the most valuable skills that I could have ever learnt. All too often children are expected to run before they can jump. ABA promotes success, it promotes enable children to always be successful. And I find it hard to argue with that.

After all children’s self esteem is precious. We should preserve it at all costs.

People question positive reinforcement. In fact it’s one of the biggest negatives thrown at ABA. To them I say simply, that we all expect to be rewarded in one way or another. As adults, that may be through a simple thank you, a well done, or a salary for our job. For a non verbal child with limited understanding those words mean little. Yet they deserve to know that we recognise how hard they are trying to learn.

Why shouldn’t they be Rewarded?

Whether it’s through tickles, or time playing with a favourite toy. Or whether it’s via small edible treats or video time. Surely like all other aspects of education rewards should be personalised, they should work for the child rather than the teacher.

Learning should be individualised.

And the ABA programmes I worked on exemplified that.

I am not saying there are not examples of bad practice out there. Nor am I saying that there aren’t professionals making promises that a child will become less autistic, or parents who are hoping for just that.

What I am saying though, is that that is not limited to ABA.

It can be found in many therapies, treatments and even schools. Here and abroad.

There is good and bad in everything. In every strategy. In every therapy. And in every approach,

By demonising a therapy, by judging it on the basis of the reports of those who have had bad experiences we are as my grandma would have said – throwing the baby out with the bath water.

And it’s time that stopped.

Early intensive intervention is a good thing. We need more of it. Our children need access to more of it. And so do we as parents and teachers.

If we’re going to make it happen we have to start sticking together, not fighting each other based on our finite philosophies.

We don’t have time for that. There are bigger battles to fight.

We need to start looking for the good, in every approach, in every therapy. And putting those approaches together.

And we can only do that if we work together.

All of us. Parents, adults with autism and teachers. Our children need us all.

They deserve us to be better than what has come before.

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13 thoughts on “ABA: Should It Really Be Demonised?

  1. One of my sons work in an ABA unit. What does this mean to him? When he gets upset, then analyse his behaviour to work out what he’s upset about. They don’t try and change David, they help his develop skills and function. They are extremely patient and he lives it there.

    1. This exactly this, all too often the stereotype of ABA is focused on rather than the reality. Done right it can be incredible x

  2. Thank you for this very sensible analysis. I am a Mum (and also a campaigner and qualified teacher) whose beautiful autistic and learning disabled boy has benefited beyond words from kind, effective ABA teaching and I am a bit fed up of the misinformed prejudice – which only helps to justify funders saying ‘no’ to it for other kids. This really helps.

    1. Thank you so much for your very kind words. I totally agree that there needs to be much more balance in the way ABA is presented.

  3. I’m all for a bit of balance; you’re right that there seems to be a lot of people out there against the idea of ABA. We looked into it very briefly when our girl was young but knew that it wouldn’t work for her or us. Every child is different though, and has different needs, just as I assume every ABA trainer is also different and works in different ways.

    1. We did the same and it wouldn’t have worked for the Bear either. Had she been non verbal and more closed from us I suspect I would have felt differently. I think the key for me though is that it doesn’t have to be a full programme, incorporating elements into education could really help with some skills based tasks such as phonics for so many children x

  4. THIS. THIS. THIS. THIS. THIS. I have half-written this post several times and not managed to get to the heart of what I wanted to convey. You have managed to succinctly and expertly sum up my whole view of ABA. My primary frustration is that I have not yet encountered someone who opposes ABA who can engage in a genuine conversation (rather than a rant). Typically, I sit there bewildered thinking, “But that’s not we do?!”. So many arguments against it seem to be against either extreme practices which are not representative or against dated practice from which we have evolved.


    1. I’m so glad you like it, I think you are right it can be so hard to have a balanced conversation about ABA as feelings tend to run high on both sides x

  5. One thing that autism has taught me is that what works for one child might not work for another. It’s all about finding what’s best for your child, and if that’s ABA then that’s great. I think you’re right, it has changed massively over time, and a lot of the stigma is from many years ago. If more people could find a way to have more balanced conversations about many things to do with autism it would be better for everyone

  6. I have no direct experience with ABA but I feel, as you’ve pointed out, that balance is missing in any conversation that is had surrounding it. I’ve heard some horror stories and I’ve heard about amazing progress. Early intervention is vital and different approaches will work for different children. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experience on this.

    1. Thank you so much for taking the time to read it. I think like with everything, how successful it is depends on the child, the parents and the teacher and what is right for the individual x

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